Ahh Nyanko is right.
We probably haven't had the chance to converse but I'm pretty okay with newbies too as long as they ask nicely, and not beg (ugh) and harass you with "leech me plz" "hunt me xxx item plz" and so on. (Like someone yesterday :(. )
Anyway yeah, if you don't fit in with that void (lmao) then you pretty much just met the douches, or well, giving the benefit of the doubt, tabbed, afk'd or busy.
As for all players being nice... it's still the real world, crammed into this online game, so we... pretty much get the same people. Lol.
Ohh and Jae, it's not the Erin we know! She's new. :)