The weak die, the strong survive. She needs to understand that about "REAL LIFE". If she can't grow up to be a stronger person after this relationship then there isn't a point to help her. She can only help her self.
Don't bother with people like that, this is coming from someone who's helped a many a people in his life. You can disregard my post if you want. But trust me I know what the fuck I'm talking about.
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If she takes the cowards way out she's doing more then just hurting her self. She's hurting her family, friends, and everyone else around her too. Not just the respect.