Experiment with different builds with a dex base. For example, a more heavily vitality-based build might work better for you than a heavily intelligence-based. It depends on what you want to accomplish with your character. For cards, try looking here> http://ratemyserver.net/index.php?page=link_card
It might take a while to browse, but look for things that you think would be useful, including dex-adding cards. Equipment, just look in the mall in fcity. If one of the guns seems good to you, get it. Again, try experimenting with this. That's the best way to form your character :)
I've barely played gunslinger, but this is a good base to start from for any new character you are unsure about :3 Good luck!