Love Or Friendship?

[SeNzz]

If you ever have to choose between Love or friendship, which one would you choose? and why?

Explain. xD

[Millenia]

W/ friendship comes love.

[CombatMuffins]

love.

[Rayray]

Friendship. A friend's love is way better than a lover's love. believe me. there are exceptions to the rule though, if you manage to keep the friendship while being lovers.

[Born2punish]

It's easy to be friends with someone, but when it comes to love; there's two side of it.

One is, how hard it is to love someone and the second is how good it feels to love someone.

If I have to choose, I'll choose friendship.

Like what Leni said, With friendship comes love.

[Ryoji]

Friendship, but real love always wins. No exceptions.

[Terroryst]

T-too much pressure!! :suicide_anim:

[Ryoji]

Yeh. Or just be safe and choose neither.

Whichever is real will come back to you eventually. Lol.

If you don't kill yourself!

[Leaz]

Friendship! ^_~

[Ethereal]

Friendship! ^_~

gurl we aint need no frendship when we can survive on love . (;

some hot, hot love .

[Leaz]

gurl we aint need no frendship when we can survive on love . (;

some hot, hot love .

dont make mi blushh. heh

[SeNzz]

Lol well for me ill just "ILL KEEP THEM BOTH" ;D

because i dont wanna lose both xD

[Rayray]

yeah then try keeping them both.. ill be surprised if you dont die on it .:D

[Millenia]

gurl we aint need no frendship when we can survive on love . (;

some hot, hot love .

w-what the............

[Armani]

Most of you are to young to understand what "real" love is. Trust me on this the type of things you're feeling in High School are nothing after it. Things get more complicated as you get into the relationship further. You begin to argue more, but can't understand why. You two seem to always have to make up, but in the end of the day you're still kissing and cuddling in bed. Sometimes you guys get into a tiff about who's gonna see who first. But at the end of it you two are STILL seeing each other.

Trust me after dating bitches & hoes back in Middle School till High School. It's nothing compared to the person I am dating now. I was lusting after girls not looking for love. Now I'm looking for a woman who I can share my life with, write a new story, and finish the old book. Maybe you guys will say you understand. But you truly won't until it happens.

Just trust me when you find the real other half in your life. You'll think back and remember this post.

Love is always patient and kind; love is never jealous; love is not boastful or conceited, it is never rude and never seeks its own advantage, it does not take offence or store up grievances. Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but finds its joy in the truth. It is always ready to make allowances, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes.

Never thought I'd see the day where I would believe in this.

Edited September 6, 2009 by Armani

[KyeKye]

DEPENDS. this question is a little bit broad.

If its TRUE LOVE that will last your whole life i would choose LOVE.

If you just have friendship What happens when your friends have there LOVE, then your friendship will slowly collapse.

When were all like 50 or something were gonna want that LOVE...your going to want that special other.

Also, friendship has boundaries, Love doesn't ...if you know what i mean

anyways this is just my opinion everyone is different i could be wrong :p :laughingsmiley:

[Sensation]

Jae defined it quite well, kudos to you Jae, it shows you understand a part of what love can be in a relation.

The total definition of love is barely doable for any human, as love is unconditional.

[» Pat]

The total definition of love is barely doable for any human

Oxytocin, norepinephrine, vasopressin, dopamine, estrogen, testosterone, NGF and serotonin.

Yeah, I'd choose friendship. ^___^

[Sensation]

Not everything on wiki is true.

[» Pat]

Only 3 of those come from wiki. Couldn't remember the longer ones. And yes, yes it is. Unless there are ~magical~ powers within my/anyone's body.

[Sensation]

Unless there are ~magical~ powers within my/anyone's body.

I'd like to call that growing up and changing perspectives on love, life and the things around it.

[» Pat]

Been there, done that. Or would you call any endocrinologist an immature being not being aware of its 'emotional' surrounding?

[Sensation]

Merely performing the job doesn't make you mature or being able to be aware of your emotional surroundings.

Endocrinologists diagnose diseases that affect your glands. They know how to treat conditions that are often complex and involve many systems within your body.

You're as mature as you feel or want to be, this doesn't, however, make you able to completely understand what love is or rather what the definition of love is.

Pat, you're avoiding the real subject too much, here, some e-love *hugs*.

[» Pat]

You've changed my way of thinking with that hug. :'D

And so he ran outside his door and spread the message: Love.<3

[KyeKye]

haha you guys are arguing about love ... make love not war drop pants not bombs o_O

also i want to expand on my opinion about this topic.

though i think both is important in everyones life i think sometimes we need one more than the other.

Example : your heart broken, you dont need love you need friendship and someone who will be there. vice versa

though i would choose love over friendship there was a point in my time where you can get tired of love because friendships usualy last a lifetime while love sometimes ends (unless of course its that true love everyone looks for)

"boyfriends/girlfriends come and go but friends are forever" so they say.

my point is it depends what kind of love were talking about.

if its a boyfriend/girlfriend love i think i would choose friendship because i know it wont last forever.

but if your married or you know for a fact your going to spend your life with a person you love. then take it, take love

Friendships make you happy but true love is a feeling unexplainable and unforgettable. right? :]

again just my opinion ^^

Edited September 7, 2009 by KyeKye