Blaze Posted August 11, 2009 Report Posted August 11, 2009 Hey, i have recently encountered two of my friends have a break-up. one is completely ignoring the other and the one i know more of the two, is completely Suicidal. i've told her that Love is nothing to throw your life away for. it comes and goes, nobody's love is perfect. and she completely ignored me and went off, i left a few messages saying that if she takes the Coward's way out then all the Respect your family and friends have for you will be gone and never return, taking that way out is just for people who think there is only one true Love, THERE ISNT one true love, there is NONE. you make it what you want. Anyways, i'm hoping for some feedback from everyone here to see if i was making a good point or was just being a tad pushy.
Ryoji Posted August 11, 2009 Report Posted August 11, 2009 There is no such thing as true, only persuasive infatuation.
Kittie Posted August 11, 2009 Report Posted August 11, 2009 It's more like a lot of sex. Kinky sex. Then settle down. Have kids. Argue. Retire. Die.
Millenia Posted August 11, 2009 Report Posted August 11, 2009 Girls are usually hit a lot harder then guys, assuming the person she was dating was a guy. Guy's tend to leave or ignore the other person in the relationship because that's how they handle things. If she's a sensible girl she won't do anything stupid, all you can do is try talking to her and take her mind off things. Will she push you away? Of course, but that's normal for most girls. Give her space but at the same time make sure she knows you're there for her as a friend. It's what she needs most right now, especially if it was a serious relationship / she loved the person, which it would seem that way. But, make sure you do not point out the wrongs of her being suicidal are. She doesn't need to know what she's thinking / doing is wrong at the moment, and you shouldn't say anything like 'there's more fish in the sea'. Getting upset may be her way of trying to deal with things, esp if they only broke up recently. Bottom line is be there for her, tell her it'll be okay. I've felt the same before and I had amazing friends to pick me up ps absolutely do not say there's no true love out there, that's going to make her even more emo.
Ryoji Posted August 11, 2009 Report Posted August 11, 2009 It's more like a lot of sex. Kinky sex. Then settle down. Have kids. Argue. Retire. Die. I think I could get used to this. Except, I think I missed a few phases.
kuoch Posted August 12, 2009 Report Posted August 12, 2009 It's more like a lot of sex. Kinky sex. Then settle down. Have kids. Argue. Retire. Die. Mhmmm, kinky sex are always nice...
CombatMuffins Posted August 12, 2009 Report Posted August 12, 2009 Damn, she is about to kill her self and your warning her about being a coward. touche.
Armani Posted August 12, 2009 Report Posted August 12, 2009 Hey, i have recently encountered two of my friends have a break-up. one is completely ignoring the other and the one i know more of the two, is completely Suicidal. i've told her that Love is nothing to throw your life away for. it comes and goes, nobody's love is perfect. and she completely ignored me and went off, i left a few messages saying that if she takes the Coward's way out then all the Respect your family and friends have for you will be gone and never return, taking that way out is just for people who think there is only one true Love, THERE ISNT one true love, there is NONE. you make it what you want. Anyways, i'm hoping for some feedback from everyone here to see if i was making a good point or was just being a tad pushy. The weak die, the strong survive. She needs to understand that about "REAL LIFE". If she can't grow up to be a stronger person after this relationship then there isn't a point to help her. She can only help her self. Don't bother with people like that, this is coming from someone who's helped a many a people in his life. You can disregard my post if you want. But trust me I know what the fuck I'm talking about. P.S. If she takes the cowards way out she's doing more then just hurting her self. She's hurting her family, friends, and everyone else around her too. Not just the respect.
Rayray Posted August 13, 2009 Report Posted August 13, 2009 But I don't think saying "the weak lives and the strong survives" would really help her though :D I suggest just show her that you are ALWAYS there. That could help a lot, until she realize that it is not the end. It would make her understand faster if you try to make her live normal. I mean, do what you guys do in the past(just don't remind her of everything that happened)
