sessions Posted July 20, 2009 Report Posted July 20, 2009 Well said Vapo. To calintz: It's going to be hard but believe me, you will make the right decision regardless. And once you do make that decision, DO NOT look back. There are plenty of deserving girls out there for you!
Ryoji Posted July 20, 2009 Report Posted July 20, 2009 Been there too many times myself.. Well, we'll always have Paris...well...Er... Well, we'll always have Forsaken City* ;D If you ever need a chum, this is probably the server for it... Love will come again someday, even though it may take eternity. I, and many others will vouch for that personally... Lol @ a lot of ppl gone sympathetic
Rayray Posted July 20, 2009 Author Report Posted July 20, 2009 as I said, I was kinda surprised at the FRO community to rise to the occasion. didn't expect that many replies lol
Dart Posted July 20, 2009 Report Posted July 20, 2009 If I wasn't taken Calintz, I would go gay for you. I love you. No but in seriousness, breaking up will always hurt. No matter the reason. The hardest part is learning to keep going. That's what you have to do. Gotta keep going and keep optimistic. Don't lose sight of everything else. You have a lot in life, more than relationships, never lose sight of that. Best of luck to ya Calintz, I'm sure you'll do great.
Rayray Posted July 20, 2009 Author Report Posted July 20, 2009 lol @Dart thanks anyway :D. Yeah you are right... I gotta keep going. XD
Sorrow Posted July 20, 2009 Report Posted July 20, 2009 Thanks Devotion for those words. Well Sorrow, I cannot answer to that. sigh wow look at me still defending her. I must have looked pathetic... You can't help it, it's a person which you invested true feelings in, having this person go is like taking a piece of you. You just need to recover and we were trying to help with that. In the cold ways of the internet, words is all we have, so that's what we use. Here's hoping things go the best way possible for you :3
Rayray Posted July 20, 2009 Author Report Posted July 20, 2009 You know guys, I would hug everyone of you if I could, the problem is it would just look so homo. O_o Thanks to everyone, I will keep you guys posted on what would happen, if she would finally get out of my life, or if she suddenly realizes that she needs to fight for this or whatever, I will definitely tell. We might be talking later so my reply would probably be tomorrow or something.
Sorrow Posted July 20, 2009 Report Posted July 20, 2009 Well, i and the others here will be wishing the best for you, if you want her back, that's what i wish it happens, it it doesn't, we wish you strength to overcome it soon ^^
Rayray Posted July 21, 2009 Author Report Posted July 21, 2009 lol @ dart XD hmm.. Well it is still a little unclear but yeah I think it might be over. I dunno for sure though... I feel so insecure though because from what I heard, Nothing I can do that he can't do better... She might become happier with him and with that said, it is good enough for me... sigh i got to stop being noble.
sessions Posted July 21, 2009 Report Posted July 21, 2009 Dont feel insecure Cal!! Always be happy with who you are, because when you start to change that... Things get messed up. (And bro hugs are not homo!) *hug*
Rayray Posted July 22, 2009 Author Report Posted July 22, 2009 Haha I will try not to change, but it would need a big effort from me. And I gotta stop thinking of ripping the guy limb from limb huh.. -_- p.s. Why does every radio station I tune in, the song I hear seems to be pointed at me :/ Just now I heard Michael Jackson's She is out of my Life. I loved that song but I haven't heard it in a long time. I mean, Why now? God really likes sending messages sometimes. Or it might just be me :p
Dart Posted July 22, 2009 Report Posted July 22, 2009 I have that happen a lot. Something that you feel strongly happens in your life, and every song or commercial, seems to relate to it. It's as though the entire world wants to keep your mind on something you just don't want to think about.
Hrist Posted July 22, 2009 Report Posted July 22, 2009 p.s. Why does every radio station I tune in, the song I hear seems to be pointed at me :/ Just now I heard Michael Jackson's She is out of my Life. I loved that song but I haven't heard it in a long time. I mean, Why now? God really likes sending messages sometimes. Or it might just be me :p Go out and flirt with a random girl and who knows? You might be hearin' '... Billy Jean is not my lover' next. Juuuust kidding.
Jordan L Posted July 22, 2009 Report Posted July 22, 2009 haha, just get another girl if you go out you'll find many girls, the one whose you like go talk to her.
Yusuke Posted July 22, 2009 Report Posted July 22, 2009 I have that happen a lot. Something that you feel strongly happens in your life, and every song or commercial, seems to relate to it. It's as though the entire world wants to keep your mind on something you just don't want to think about. So true.
Blaze Posted July 22, 2009 Report Posted July 22, 2009 meh, im my opinion *may not be the best but oh welll* is to NOT get involved with anyone unless you absolutely feel the need to. if you have no need to date that person then ignore them, sure they'll get hurt but that is none of your concern. and no, im not a User. i don't use people for the things i need and the minority of men i went out with are still good friends with me Arent we, Yus?
Rayray Posted July 22, 2009 Author Report Posted July 22, 2009 Well to be honest. She is my first girlfriend. You see, most guys find it weird for me to stick to one girl at a young age. I know some might say that is wrong and such but yeah I don't care what they say. And Jordan, I don't really treat girls that way. My biggest fault I think in life is that I don't ever ever like to hurt someone. I am sorry but I won't ever follow your suggestion :p And Blaze, not get involved with someone unless you need to? If you love someone because he/she is kind, sexy, rich or whatever your reason is, you don't really love the person. To me, the only reason for you to love a person is because you love him/her. You would accept all his/her faults and appreciate everything. Getting involved with someone but not love them is not my thing to be honest.
itstiggs Posted July 25, 2009 Report Posted July 25, 2009 Well to be honest. She is my first girlfriend. You see, most guys find it weird for me to stick to one girl at a young age. I know some might say that is wrong and such but yeah I don't care what they say. And Jordan, I don't really treat girls that way. My biggest fault I think in life is that I don't ever ever like to hurt someone. I am sorry but I won't ever follow your suggestion :p And Blaze, not get involved with someone unless you need to? If you love someone because he/she is kind, sexy, rich or whatever your reason is, you don't really love the person. To me, the only reason for you to love a person is because you love him/her. You would accept all his/her faults and appreciate everything. Getting involved with someone but not love them is not my thing to be honest. To comment about the first part that is in bold, I am the same way when it comes to not wanting to hurt people, I don't think treating someone badly to benefit yourself works out. It'll just come back and bite you in the ass later on. When you finally hit that point where you find yourself loving someone deeply and you get treated the same way you treated someone previously, you're gonna wonder wtf did you do to deserve that. Second thing that's in bold, that is true to some extent but you can't overlook everything because of love. That's just being ignorant and allowing yourself to be trampled on. Unless the other person feels the same and you're both willing to compromise and sacrifice an equal amount (or close because it's hard to find two people being completely equal in terms of who cares since there will always be someone who cares more than the other), one of you is going to be the welcome mat on the floor for the other. I have to say, after watching The Ugly Truth yesterday with my girlfriend, a lot of it is pretty much exactly as he said. Sad but if you watch that movie, I'm sure you'd do 1 of the 3 things: 1. Completely agree with the guy's point of view 2. Completely disagree with him or 3. Hate it & try to come up with your own reasons to justify why love sucks, love hurts, women suck & men suck. Either way, that movie is pretty damn funny and at the same time gives anyone some insight if they have a one track mind.
Rayray Posted July 26, 2009 Author Report Posted July 26, 2009 Well the 2nd thing you highlighted is something I believe in. Yes, there will always be someone who loves the other more. You can still love the person without being ignorant. No matter how angry or whatever happens or if you end up breaking up, you still loved that person, and that part is right. I talked to her about this things, and I think I do understand what she is going through. As I see now, three years is a long time and enough time for someone to be bored of their partner. That is what happened to her. Well who knows, maybe after all this is over, we might still end up together. If anything is still not in their right place or still bad, it is still not the end anyway.
Dart Posted July 26, 2009 Report Posted July 26, 2009 Some relationships go on and off for years, and end in marriage. It isn't something that I'd like to have happen to me, but it's been known to happen. So who knows? Maybe you guys will be on and off for a while, until both of you decide the same thing. I'm rooting for you though! :D
Rayray Posted July 26, 2009 Author Report Posted July 26, 2009 Yeah I understand completely now what is in the situation. Thanks again Charlotte and Dart for your words. If I am rich, I would've given you both items in game(lol). Thanks again for those kind words.
Rayray Posted July 26, 2009 Author Report Posted July 26, 2009 oh wow I nearly completely forgot that song. thanks dude!
