Rhapsody Posted May 16, 2009 Report Posted May 16, 2009 I just had to rant this one out. LoL. Don't you just hate it when you fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend then suddenly all his/her friends hate you too? :\ And you can't do anything because no matter how hard you explain that it's not your fault, you always come out wrong. It's times like these that I wish people could reproduce asexually. qq;;
Millenia Posted May 16, 2009 Report Posted May 16, 2009 When you argue you tell all your friends your side of the story, he tells all his friends his side, and they obviously take sides with the person they are friends with. That's just how it goes. In my opinion arguments are both peoples fault, takes two to tango.
Nick Posted May 16, 2009 Report Posted May 16, 2009 Don't you just hate it when you fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend then suddenly all his/her friends hate you too? :\ Hey leni, good thing I have no friends. <3
Millenia Posted May 16, 2009 Report Posted May 16, 2009 Hey leni, good thing I have no friends. <3 Yeah, that's why one of your friends IM'd me once hating on me.
Nick Posted May 16, 2009 Report Posted May 16, 2009 random fags on my contact list* NO FRIENDS. Friends are ppl that I can trust, ppl that would be there for me when I'm down. AKA NOBODY EXCEPT FOR YOU, AND WE'RE MARRIED. (And maybe Genesis)
Millenia Posted May 16, 2009 Report Posted May 16, 2009 Yeah, well, that's just, like, your opinion, man. Like, you're, like, practically, like, Genesis's butt buddy, man.
Nick Posted May 16, 2009 Report Posted May 16, 2009 Yeah that's why his chat logs are 811 KB large and your chat logs are 10,388 KB large. (for May, up to now)
Rayray Posted May 16, 2009 Report Posted May 16, 2009 @topic Well that happened to me too. Just like Leni said, they will side with whomever they are friends with. It is a natural reaction. They don't need to listen to your story, they already heard it(even if they don't know it is real).
» Pat Posted May 16, 2009 Report Posted May 16, 2009 I just know this from the position that all those people are on my side so that's kinda awesome. 8D
Masquerade Posted May 17, 2009 Report Posted May 17, 2009 This doesn't really happen if you break up properly. Too bad Zelde is bad with break ups. :>
Rayray Posted May 17, 2009 Report Posted May 17, 2009 But it always happen when you are not thinking of break up but you guys had a little problem. Then your friends would make it a big deal... >.>
Arisu Posted May 17, 2009 Report Posted May 17, 2009 This doesn't really happen if you break up properly. Too bad Zelde is bad with break ups. :> What? It always happens. People always make speculations and believe friends over someone else, whether a break-up is clean or not.
Devotion Posted May 17, 2009 Report Posted May 17, 2009 Well, it's happened only once to me so far, and we fight a lot. And the person wasn't even either of our friends. He told our mutual friend who mentioned it to someone else who then got on MSN to hate. I think it all depends on who you choose to be friends with. His friends are very cool when I get pissy, likely because they know how stubborn my bf is. And my friends are very understanding. Our friends also know each other etc, that might help? But at the end of the day, don't breakup because of what other people say. A good relationship always has its troubles.
Rayray Posted May 18, 2009 Report Posted May 18, 2009 another lesson I learned from my relationship. Don't mind them. It is your life anyway. Whatever they say, whatever they do, don't let them get to you. Just don't care about what other people say. Trust me, it makes life easier.
Rhapsody Posted May 20, 2009 Author Report Posted May 20, 2009 I don't really mind it. I couldn't care less about what they think of me. I just find it stupid that people won't even bother to know what really happened :\
Rayray Posted May 20, 2009 Report Posted May 20, 2009 People tend to go along with things. They don't need to hear any explanation from anyone else if they already heard about it once. They judge so fast. Most people are born that way, or rather, all of us are born that way. It is just that some others tend to change, most don't. Even if they gave you time to explain, I doubt they will actually listen to you. Sorry but we can rant about it all the time, but still they won't change. I can't even think of a solution to it since it is my problem too... If you thought of something let me know XD
Communism Posted May 28, 2009 Report Posted May 28, 2009 (edited) aaaaaaaaaaaaaa. deleted the fact that this ever happened. Edited October 17, 2009 by Communism
Kusanagi Posted June 2, 2009 Report Posted June 2, 2009 umm meh Im used to be hated and stuff, like most people in this friggin city are a bunch of anti-social emos >.>, there are very few people I atually consider as friends and I know I can trust them to not get mad over things like such (lol not like I could ever do something really bad againts someone I trust).
Millenia Posted June 2, 2009 Report Posted June 2, 2009 umm meh Im used to be hated and stuff, I BET IU R LOL
GrimFusion Posted June 2, 2009 Report Posted June 2, 2009 I just had to rant this one out. LoL. Don't you just hate it when you fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend then suddenly all his/her friends hate you too? :\ And you can't do anything because no matter how hard you explain that it's not your fault, you always come out wrong. It's times like these that I wish people could reproduce asexually. qq;; That just means all their friends are biased and retarded. Why would you want them on YOUR side?
Jeon Posted June 5, 2009 Report Posted June 5, 2009 Why is it always about sides in a relationship? Anyone smart person would disregard sides and take in perspective instead. If anything, your partner's friends are no good. Be happy they're not your friends anymore.
