Ryoji Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 Well, I officially fucked up. My house burned down, so I'm now still living with my parents in a 2 bedroom apartment. My girlfriend just broke up with me recently, because I had a nervous break down from her not being there. My health is dramatically getting worse. I haven't eaten in 6 days, I've lost 5 lbs. And the doctors may think I have something possibly worst for my health. Oh, and did I mention I don't have health insurance? Not to mention because of all the drama with me crying over my girlfriend... I'm behind in my college classes, and dangerously risking losing all semester's credit. So, yes. I'm fail. comment if you want. or make fun of me. idk. lol.
teacupx Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 I suck at advice... but I'll try. Stop blaming yourself. Be happy that you still have your family and a roof over your head. Don't be so down on yourself. Start eating and being more positive. Remember that it's all about your outlook on things. Good things will come too. And if your girlfriend broke up with you and was insensitive to the fact that you're going through a lot of tough shit, then maybe she isn't worth having in your life.
teacupx Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 Yeah! I completely agree with iHunt. Maybe try going out with friends a lot more. When I'm sad I don't like being alone. So I just go out with friends all the time and take my mind off of everything. When I focus on everything I get overwhelmed. Sometimes it's better to just live life and realise that shit is going to happen, and you might as well have fun.
Ryoji Posted February 17, 2009 Author Report Posted February 17, 2009 Have fun. Tyme to hit up the clubs, yo'. Lol.
Millenia Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 Learn to love yourself before giving your love to others. Hitting up clubs is not going to help but sure it'll take your minds off things. Sit down, reflect on your life, the happy moments, the sad moments, and most importantly think about the future and push yourself foward. Wish I could be of further help. :c
Sorrow Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 Ry...(i'ma friend so i can have some intimacy XD) ...first things first! Eat up! If i lived near you i'd go to your house and shove the food on your mouth XD If you're healthy all the rest can be fixed so work on this part first. Your girlfriend left you in the moment you most needed her and isn't willing to face things by yourside? That just shows that she probably wasn't the one for you. Your special someone is yet to come be patient and never give up... Okay...well well...the house suddenly burning down is a BIG mess...and that's really somethng that brings one's world down. But...at least you have where to go...try watching TV...the news...seeing people who are in worst condition to you actually helps you value what you have. Around here the rain season is making loads of people loose everything they have as their houses crumble down the hill and the flood doesn't allow then to get out of the risky area...they have sleep on a closed school over a matress made of t-shirts and are exposed to the sewer-contamined waters at any moment the rain falls harder...did that help or made you feel worse? ^^" College? Is this subject really worthy of taking into the matter? That's when you use your determination and willpower, go there and show that they'll won't make you lose! yay! X3
Ryoji Posted February 17, 2009 Author Report Posted February 17, 2009 Thanks guys. I really appreciate it. ^^
Sorrow Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 There are people cheering for you. Even if in the distance, you're not alone Ryoji ^^ Thinking it over...maybe you know you're really screwed when someone named "Sorrow" tries to cheer you up >.> ...just kidding...X3
Ryoji Posted February 17, 2009 Author Report Posted February 17, 2009 LOL Sorrow. You're still one of my favorite people. ^_^
Armani Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 "Though things may look bleak at times. There is always the light at the end of the tunnel." :)
Icarus Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 I'm so sorry dude Q_Q I'm sure it will all pass soon and everything will go back being normal and even better then before n__n If you need anything from me just let me know <3
Emy Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 I'm sorry but is this for real? PS: everyone is always alone. People do not live our experiences, they are only beside us to help (in the best case) Get your grades and don't flunk your school. That piece of paper will help you your entire life.
Pwnsauce Posted February 17, 2009 Report Posted February 17, 2009 That really sucks for you, but I'm not in your position. So, I laugh at you because you suck at life.
Kittie Posted February 18, 2009 Report Posted February 18, 2009 Rule #1: Say no to relationships in college. Fuck commitment, and screw freely.
Ethereal Posted February 18, 2009 Report Posted February 18, 2009 Think of super rainbow unicorns and you'll feel better. (: jk;. And blade that wasn't necessary.
no1i Posted February 18, 2009 Report Posted February 18, 2009 i no how it feels men, when jay left me.
Forum~ Posted February 18, 2009 Report Posted February 18, 2009 OMG man... so sorry D: Keep up your health and education man. /gawi
billy Posted February 18, 2009 Report Posted February 18, 2009 I personally know how it feels from experience, that some people think that they a reallly bad life, and think they rather be dead than alive. They dont want to go and deal with the future, becuase they think that the future will just bring more bad times. The thing is, people don't think about the good times, when they did something awsome and fun together with other people they love or care about. This goes to y'all who think your life is going to crumble under you, and leave you with nothing to hold on to. My advice to you: EAT!. Keep up your health, or you'll, really die, and you wont like it. >.> >Go to your girlfriend and apolgzige if you already didn't do that. Chances are if she broke up with you for that, she might still love you. >Be greatful for everything you have. >Go out with some friends and have a good time somewhere. >Think about your life, do what you want to do, and don't do what you dont want to do, etc. >YOU CONTROL YOUR FUTURE, SO CONTROL IT AND DONT LET ANYONE ESLE CONTORL IT FOR YOU. It's sorta like contorling a plane that has unlimited fuel, in a place no where to land, no people knows how to fly the plance, and no autopilot >Go on with your education, block everything out of your mind (cept maybe your iPod music), and STUDY. (this is probably a repeat of what everyone said xD)
D.Vampire Posted February 18, 2009 Report Posted February 18, 2009 Just walk with your head up high and don't look back, That should help.
Ryoji Posted February 18, 2009 Author Report Posted February 18, 2009 College would be easier without a relation.. Except the fact, I went to college because I'm in a relationship. Kind of defeated my purpose, imo. )= I'm finishing the semester to say the least, and.. i'll probably go till I get my degree, since I'm almost done. Thanks again everyone.
Gilgamesh Posted February 20, 2009 Report Posted February 20, 2009 Listen to your doctor, me. No day is your day.
MAC Posted February 24, 2009 Report Posted February 24, 2009 OMG his house Burning, broke up with his Gf and you said DONT WORRY, BE HUPPY..WAS FUNNY.... O_O non comments!
