I have a wife, kids and guild to fund. :3
Well like I said, damage cards etc. are on katar, wife has ice pick, etc. I'm usually in double dagger build but I'm playing SB sinx recently for the hell of it, my dd is definitely more powerful though.
Speaking of aspd, I can't just get more agi, my build is carefully planned out and includes exactly enough agi for 193 aspd using awakening pot, +10 agi food and 150 total dex.
I default alice card on my pally, but that's just the way I roll. ;D