I think you guys are getting off tangent with the discussion of the differences of the dances. There definitely should be some differentiation between the two genders, as they are essentially two different classes - the clown and the gypsy.
However, there is still an imbalance that has yet to be solved in a high rate server! Scream is more useful in a server in which not everyone has the card, or stat (which is 100+ vit), to gain immunity to stun. This aspect of high rate servers renders gypsies less powerful than their male counterparts. I don't care about what dances each class gets, since a soul link equalizes the differences anyways. And we all know how proficient fRO players are at dual-client-buffing. :]
So, I advocate getting back on track to the topic at hand, and changing the effect of scream to freeze or stone curse. If you really want to be fair to the letter, then I would change it to freeze and not stone curse, since there's only a select few that get the Soldier Card. I think changing it to Stone Curse, while keeping the two genders different, will give gypsies more of an advantage, since everyone hates that status.