Lucius Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 I forgot how I was going to edit this...
Devotion Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Ah that wasn't for you Kuyuti :P On the issue at hand, I read and saw that Lork wasn't exactly happy with many of your posts, and both of you went back and forth for a while. I never said they were flames. I'm preventing them. Yes I am in a relationship, and I frankly wouldn't appreciate the comments you left, just as he did not.
Lucius Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Ah that wasn't for you :P Read my signature. I'm a cool retard. Anyways then... I still hope the best for them, fair to say?
Millenia Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Mike, your first few posts did seem negative about e-dating, but your newer ones you seem more for it. I can understand why Nick took your posts the wrong way, and honestly so did I. But thank you for what you said in your recent posts - it's nice to see someone say that instead of being completely negative like most people are. Also Nick's attitude is very different on the forums than how he actually is off the forums (ingame, msn, etc.) :/ Ilu Niki :'D And as Devotion said, me and Nick aren't looking for opinions about our relationship. We're happy and that's all that matters, to me anyway, if you are against e-relationships then please do not share your opinions.
Lucius Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 I agree with what you said about you two being happy how you are, but, shit happens and that's what I'm afraid of. The smallest flaw could bring down the biggest ship. My first few posts were just self-clarification if whether or not you two might seem the least ready for what's coming ahead, which apparently it seems you are. I do indeed hope that the relationship between you two last. Two of my friends that used to play here, Hope and Sarhan (Bellsomething and Flush) still have a long-distance online relationship going on after almost a year now. Just, don't let the smallest obstacle disturb you, because there will be a lot, like in every relationship.
Eregon Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 I've been in two LDR. Both of them involving girls of another country and both lasting longer than a year. First one ended because we never had a chance to meet each other, and so the distance became too much for her to bear. The second one I'm still currently involved in. We see each other every Christmas, spring break and summer. Doing great so far. It's a lot of pain, a lot of sacrifice. Love brings about the sharpest pain and deepest joy. It's part of what Love is. If you're truly in love, you will always be willing to make the sacrifice to hold onto your partner, no matter how much it may hurt. For if you truly love, you know that the happiness brought around by love is greater than any pain you could ever feel. My two cents.
Lucius Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 By man-up, too, I mean, read what Nick said on the thread, that he wants to suicide and stuff? They haven't even kissed yet! So now, what if you two really do get into a real argument in real life and she decides to "take a break" or absolutely break up? You'd actually consider suicide if you cannot bear the pain of an online separation. That will be your biggest downfall in the relationship, never show weakness to your partner. You're a man, show emotion but be strong about it. In real life, I'm romantic, calm, nice, less belligerent for sure but at the same time, when it comes time to it, I put my physical, mental and emotional strengths at work. Be humble and gentle, but don't let yourself be conquered.
Millenia Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 I agree with what you said about you two being happy how you are, but, shit happens and that's what I'm afraid of. The smallest flaw could bring down the biggest ship. I'm already completely aware. This isn't my first e-relationship, heck I've even had a 2 year long e-relationship before. I'm not as naïve as you seem to think I am. :3
Devotion Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Posts altered/deleted, and warns risen. Let's leave the two in peace, please.
Defiance Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Haunter, I deleted your posts and I advise you to NOT re-post it to avoid interfering with my work. And to the readers of this thread, I find replies regarding sex, intimacy, and maturity out of the question. I have read all 4 pages of this thread and I advise everyone to lay off the "ME > you" mentality when posting. Be responsible people and stay on topic. Should the poster have some shortcomings when it comes to his judgment, I advise everyone to lead him with reasonable responses and not further flame him. Do so or I'll have this thread closed.
Sephirothfan Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 WHAT ABOUT MY NEEDS?! But srsly, I <3 you both. :] I wish you many years of peace and prosperity... And I sound I like fortune cookie. Shutting up now. :x
-Insane- Posted January 14, 2009 Author Report Posted January 14, 2009 And since my dad pretty much forced me to get off the comp by cutting off power and internet, she's now avoiding / hating me. ;_; Man I feel so fucking horrible right now.
Defiance Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 And since my dad pretty much forced me to get off the comp by cutting off power and internet, she's now avoiding / hating me. ;_; Man I feel so fucking horrible right now. Learn how to grease it up with the big boss (your parents) instead of trying to fight their system. You'll get by.
-Insane- Posted January 14, 2009 Author Report Posted January 14, 2009 In fact I talked to him about my relationship with her for the first time ever after that, and he understands etc. now. But Sheryl is still avoiding me. ;_;
-Insane- Posted January 14, 2009 Author Report Posted January 14, 2009 Alright, I think we've got things pretty much worked out. Thanks for all the kind replies, especially you, Lucius. The stress of e-relationships just gets to us sometimes. >: I've talked it through with my parents and they agreed that we should try and meet up sometime though, since England-Germany is actually quite feasible, considering that my brother married a woman 10 years older than him that lived in Seattle, visiting her like 2 months after they got to know each other via the internet. Heh.
Terroryst Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 I don't get it, where's the punchline?
Communism Posted January 15, 2009 Report Posted January 15, 2009 I don't get it, where's the punchline? Just look hard enough, you'll find it.
Millenia Posted January 15, 2009 Report Posted January 15, 2009 Just look hard enough, you'll find it. KOS'D KOS'D KOS'D
