-Insane- Posted January 13, 2009 Author Report Posted January 13, 2009 ya y Btw are you one of those faggots that cares about looks? If so, please get out of my topic as we're beyond your kiddy shit.
Lucius Posted January 13, 2009 Report Posted January 13, 2009 ya y Btw are you one of those faggots that cares about looks? If so, please get out of my topic as we're beyond your kiddy shit. Did you know, if you both aren't physically attracted to each other, you will not arouse one another during sexual intercourse hence making it impossible to "mate". Appearance plays an important role in every relationship, it's not a matter of being shallow, but rather having a small spec of self-value and good standards to the opposite (sometimes same depending on sexuality) gender. Also, I'm not a faggot, I have a girlfriend. :]
-Insane- Posted January 13, 2009 Author Report Posted January 13, 2009 Did you know, if you both aren't physically attracted to each other, you will not arouse one another during sexual intercourse hence making it impossible to "mate". >physically attracted >sexual intercourse Yep, that confirms it. If I wanted sex I'd go out with any girl that lives near me.
Lucius Posted January 13, 2009 Report Posted January 13, 2009 >physically attracted >sexual intercourse Yep, that confirms it. If I wanted sex I'd go out with any girl that lives near me. It's not equivalent to actually having sex with one you're in love with. Show some decency in your posts too, I feel as if I'm lecturing you rather having a conversation.
-Insane- Posted January 13, 2009 Author Report Posted January 13, 2009 Gee I wonder why. You have chosen to ignore all posts from: Lucius. View this post Un-ignore Lucius Now can we have a serious discussion again?
Lucius Posted January 13, 2009 Report Posted January 13, 2009 By your attitude, I could tell that you won't have a real good relationship in real life. Unless Leni is ignorant and decides to allow you to continue with your immaturity, I don't see you two prospering. Females are delicate and require attention and maturity, they wouldn't want to sleep with someone that has the mentality of a 13 year old. I suggest you man-up.
Crack Baby Posted January 13, 2009 Report Posted January 13, 2009 Seriously. Stop belittling them. You aren't showing your "so called maturity" by coming on this forum and condemning a relationship YOU are not involved in. Who are we to judge them? Let love live, regardless of how old they are. Remy your posts seriously aren't wanted or needed in this thread anymore. You said your peace, now leave it be. Leni and Nick, just set a schedule for yourselves. I understand that your relationship is lovely, and you are there for one another when other people in your lives aren't. Just try to set a time you are both comfortable with to be online, an then take care of our real life stuff.
-Insane- Posted January 13, 2009 Author Report Posted January 13, 2009 I like how you call her Leni and me Nick. Sheryl and Lork~
Crack Baby Posted January 13, 2009 Report Posted January 13, 2009 I've never called her by her real name. Not even in game, I'm not going to start changing it now. =p She's on my msn as Leni, so she stays Leni to me.
-Insane- Posted January 13, 2009 Author Report Posted January 13, 2009 F2. And yeah we've discussed this ingame. :3 Night > Day though.
Lucius Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Seriously. Stop belittling them. You aren't showing your "so called maturity" by coming on this forum and condemning a relationship YOU are not involved in. Who are we to judge them? Let love live, regardless of how old they are. Remy your posts seriously aren't wanted or needed in this thread anymore. You said your peace, now leave it be. Leni and Nick, just set a schedule for yourselves. I understand that your relationship is lovely, and you are there for one another when other people in your lives aren't. Just try to set a time you are both comfortable with to be online, an then take care of our real life stuff. You don't get the point of my posts. Since they're currently dating through the internet, shouldn't he act mature here at least? I never mentioned physical age, I mentioned mental age, don't you think it'd only be better for Leni if he were to be a bit more serious? Not militarily disciplined, but at least the least bit serious, drop some ego and live on as a human? It's basically an epidemic online for everybody to have over exaggerated egos. Neither am I condemning their relationship since hey, I've done long distance too. As a matter of fact, I've been hoping they'd succeed and have a serious relationship further on the future, but my fear is that when they meet in real life if, his attitude, in person, completely distorts the image of love for them two. My long distance relationship didn't work thus I love to see others succeed where I fail.
Kuyuti Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Online relas especially one made in a game suck period the end. I had a girl a long long time ago that I had online and we were doing so great. We had conversation just like you stated then she got grounded from the internet. And ofc we talked on the phone and all but not that much since she lived in another country XP. And I got grounded from the phone soon after when I made a long distance call. Anyway We sent letters to each other for a bit. Took awhile but it made it back and forth but then... Well then I decided to end it because where as love involves sacrifice it shouldn't involve pain, or well constant pain. In the end it turned out we really didn't know each other anyway. We both learned how easy it is to shape who we are and to shape who want to be online. And that we were in love in what each other had made of themselves rather than what the other really was. We still talk and unfrotunately old feelings still linger for us both but we both know now he consequences of online dating. I guess in life there is no editing or rereading what you say or a delete button. There is also no true facial emotion or voice tone. Online relationships are dangerous though because seperation is what drives feelings to their furthest extent. It works as a taboo I guess you can say. More Speration = More need for intimacy and love. That is why counselors will often tell troubled lovers to take time off of each other. Or like in the book of Monte Cristo when the Count takes away one of the lovers to reunite them at the end so they both could experience true intimacy. I myself always wondered what it would be like if we would have met in Real life but I always come up with the same conclusion- It most likely wouldn't have been the same. But anyway I feel for you and symphasize with you because I have been there before. and I thought I would share my experience...
Kuyuti Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Btw She was in England and I was in Texas. Sometimes Dreams aren't meant to be lived... :/
Lucius Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 I'm basically living a dream with my girlfriend right now. Dreams are meant to be lived, only if they're meant to be. Follow them, who knows when it'll happen, never lose hope.
Kuyuti Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 I don't know dreams are dreams for a reason. Aspirations and hopes are something abit different..
Lucius Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 I don't know dreams are dreams for a reason. Aspirations and hopes are something abit different.. Dreams, aspirations and hopes are all relevant to each other and all possible, just in different levels. ;] My only tip is to never let a dream go, only if it'd kill you. Life has many surprises, trust me, I've had a fair share of them therefor if I'm eligible of living a dream, anyone else is. Leni and Nick, don't let go of your dreams, Nick, change your attitude a bit however, not for us but for yourself since you're undergoing one of the toughest relationships ever, when it becomes a reality, it'll be different than long-distance since you actually feel you and her are meant to be.
Kuyuti Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 I guess sometimes experiences speaks louder than words....But I do agree Nick does need an attitude change regardless of the situation True love involves Patience....And True Love knows it will work out and perserve ;)
Lucius Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Yeah, love involves a lot of patience. Even if you don't love, a relationship in general requires tons of patience. The relationship I'm currently in is hell when it comes to sex, it's so annoying when we're together and we can't fuck since she has to go home early. We have to schedule days when we could possibly do it... It takes tons of patience.
Kuyuti Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Lol Unfortunately Love doesn't involve sex =p While its an outcome it isn't a neccesity or what I mean when I say Patience XP
Devotion Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Ah, if Lork and Leni want opinions on their relationship they will ask for it. Until then no one should judge them on that in any way. If Lork needs to change he will discover it on his own. It got heated before so let's all worry about our own issues. Yes this was a friendly little warning.
Kuyuti Posted January 14, 2009 Report Posted January 14, 2009 Well I'm not judging anyone :/ I just spoke from experience then asserted a few common truths. <3 Devotion don't hurt me :/
