i just read through the earlier posts and @Vapo, its mostly those hot blooded guys who thinks that "lesbians are like hot"etcetc or little [ removed ] who go gaga over gays who are good-looking. they dont understand that it is pure mutual love between two persons, exactly the same as the one straight couples have, and thus are rather superficial about their take on homosexuals. ..so i understand where you're heading there.
sadly, many gay couples have to hide their relationship though... they even have to hide the fact that they are personally gay. even though it is a 'right', but it is considered "disgusting","sick" by homophobics or people in general because they cannot accept what is different from them. so in the end, there isn't really a personal right to rely on, to defend ourselves with it.